girls vs. boys - talking about heart matters
January 28, 2008e-mail chain with the peanut:
B: I think guys are a little weird about having long, deep conversations. I honestly don’t have deep conversations with any of my guy friends. It’s mostly nonsense. But from time to time, my guy friends and I do talk about what’s bothering us. But not matters of the heart unless it’s BIG.
For example: When one of my friends broke up with her BF last year, I didn’t really ask about it because I figured that she would talk to me when she’s ready. A few months passed and she commented about how I didn’t ask and pry, which translated to how I don’t care.
I don’t know, I mean, you’re a girl…sort of…what do you think?
P: Totally agree with you. Girls get together and talk about their feelings, and greatly analyze everything. Guys just kinda think about it internally and don’t really talk to their other guy friends about it.
In your friend’s situation if I was her I would also think you didn’t care. But then again, I think I would just feel that you were uncomfortable asking about it and all that stuff.
B: I wasn’t uncomfortable. just didn’t want to be too nosy. But I have since learned that girls tend to like it when you’re nosy. Apparently it shows that you care…who’d have thunk it?
P: You ask if you care. If you don’t care, you don’t ask and just look the other way when something happens.
Men are from Mars (retards) Women are from Venus (smart ones)






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